Are you struggling with women because you don’t know what to say?

You’ve seen women in your everyday life, the grocery store, bus stop. You want to talk to them.  But there are so many people around.  Your fear of rejection is bad enough.  “What will everybody think of me?”

And even if you find the courage, you have no idea what to say.

You’ve been to parties or social events.  There’s already common ground.  But it’s so difficult to read her subtle cues.  Sometimes it feels awkward, especially when asking for her number.  Conversation should be easy.

You’re a man with a healthy career or business. For the most part, you’ve got your life together.  Except with women.  And you’re tired of settling.  You want to be with great women.  To know when she’s interested.  To be able to choose.  To make real connections.

A Lucky Push Got Me a Girlfriend

Wherever you’re at right now, I was probably worse.  I’m an introvert. A software engineer who actually liked engineering school.  A prototypical nerd, my favorite gift has always been a pirate LEGO set I received when I was 8 years old.

My former girlfriend used to call me “Aspy”.  Short for Asperger syndrome.  (from Wikipedia: “significant difficulties in social interaction and nonverbal communication”)  That’s right, my girlfriend nicknamed me after a social disorder.

And our meeting was pure luck.  I was dancing and somebody bumped her into me.  It took a literal push from another person.  Like many relationships, at some point we broke up.

Now I Can Choose GREAT Women

I’ve consumed hours upon days upon weeks of dating material.  Most of it does not resonate with me.  Most of it is a waste of time.  It talks about performing routines, using scripts, and saying things to lower her self esteem (WTF).

First, I’m an introvert.  I don’t want to perform anything.  Especially in public.

Second,  I want to have natural conversations with high self-esteem women.  Women I can meet in my everyday life.

I’ve went out and talked to tons and tons of women.  I’ve failed hard and fast, I’ve learned how to build my confidence and know exactly what to say.  Not merely to get her number, but to arrange a date on the spot.

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